That girl who playes the violin

I just was at a funeral for my dear beloved friend Barry Valentine, and was surprised and rather shocked and annoyed that I am somewhat reffered to as "That girl who plays the violin for us, you know her, Sarah I think she is called."
These are people who have listened to me play for the church for over 5 years at the least... I will say this though, the violin does not play itself, so I come with it. Get used to it already... most of you are at least 60 and live to over a hundred.